Saturday 9 July 2011

Trust!!

Trust is a very important part of every relationship in our lives. A person trusts his/her friends to be there when they need them. We trust our family to stand by us in periods of adversity. We trust our siblings to fight alongside us. We trust our colleagues not to destroy us when our backs are turned.
But what happens when it is proved that the trust we had on someone was misplaced? Do we have the strength to brush off the experience and move on? Is brushing off and moving on the best solution? What if we are so broken that we never want to trust anyone ever again? Is that a good solution??
I believe the best solution lies between the two extremes. We have to learn something from the experience. Think and find out what we did wrong. And make sure that you never do the same mistake again. We should also take some time to feel and mourn, coz when our trust in someone is broken, a part of us dies! Mourn till you feel better, smile and get on with your life.
Life is precious and we never know when our time is about to run out! Be brave and face life as it comes. And try never to destroy the trust someone has in you :-)

Saturday 2 July 2011

Dreams!

Life is very complex. People enter our lives constantly and some of them do not deserve to be it. It is very easy to let those people go. But sometimes, a person enters your life and changes how satisfied you are with the way your life is going.
Some people make you satisfied with who you are and where you are going in life. While at the same time, others make you realize how dissatisfied you are.
I realized that my life has become stagnant and that I have to change how my life is going. I need strength to make things happen. I need friends who believe in me and give me courage to follow my dreams- d dreams that I gave up on.
I need strength! I need someone to help me out sometimes.....

Disappointment :-(

Who can you trust in life?
I think the answer to the question posed above depends upon the situation you find yourself in. It is guaranteed that if you are trying to make your life better, every1 who promises to help you will conveniently forget the promise they made.
Why are people so forgetful sometimes? Is it because they don't think that you deserve help to pull yourself out of the rut you find yourself in??
I am a lazy person and also find it difficult to ask for help from others. When I do end up asking for help, it means I trust the person to help me! But why do I always trust people who always end up betraying me?? I know that I am not stupid.... I dont trust people very easily either..... But why do I always get disappointed?? Mayb I don't deserve happiness??? Mayb I should give up??